personal drama

Sometimes you meet someone and you just know they won't stick around, yet you befriend them anyway. I had a one year friend recently, but she was toxic. She is abusive, an manipulative, she doesn't understand that the world doesn't revolve around her. She needs a reality check, and when I tried to hold her accountable for her crap, she flipped shit and "cut me out". I feel sorry for her though, because she has no idea how to handle the real world, because everything is handed to her on a silver platter. I personally don't believe it is healthy to feed the thought of "hate" and I try my best not to be rude to her. Unfortunately even those close friends that you think wont hurt you do. One of my closest is currently in a very self destructive situation and she has no idea how to handle it, so she assumed she could just change my life instead of her own. I desided that I need to stop letting her call all the shots in my life, so I am no longer speaking to her, she needs to realize her priorities, and that she is hurting other people, and I'm not going to waste my time trying to explain myself to someone who dosnt want to listen, and who disregards my feelings as a joke. I'm ready to talk when she is ready to treat me as an equal.