The only reason I go out

My younger sister likes to get involved in the girls youth ministry at our church, but has a bit of trouble clicking with the other girls. I used to not go to events because I don't feel accepted, I feel very judged. But my sister has expressed her distress about "making friends" to me. So now I try my best to go with her. I ask her if she wants to go to events that may be happening and I make sure I can go. The only reason I go to these events is to help my sister feel safe, comfortable and confident. Friends, siblings are important, remember that please, because one night you will get up at 3am to pee and you will hear them sobbing as you walk past your door. I used to be part of the reason that happened. Please don't hurt your siblings, they need you more than you think.

My sexuality vs. You knowing

It's a simple thing, sexuality, it's about who you are attracted to, and it's not that hard to figure out. I recently came out as bisexual, to my big brother... Not really on purpose... It kinda just happened... And I asked him not to dwel on it, 1) because it's unnecessary and 2) because it shouldn't be a big deal, I'm attracted to who I'm attracted to. I'm not the kind of person who keeps secrets, but I also believe that society isn't obligated to know everything about you, if you feel comfortable talking people about specific things, great! But if not, you aren't obligated to "come out" because it shouldn't change how people look at you, or treat you, and it's really only you and your partners buisness anyways. But that's just my opinion.